REPUBLIKA.CO.ID, JAKARTA -- There are several consequences caused by parental neglect in caring for their children. One of them is that the child is in a negative relationship with people who are not good.
Dr Abdullah Nashih Ulwan in his book explained that some of the main causes that result in deviant children are negative and broken promiscuity.
If the child is clueless, weak-minded and easily swayed, they will quickly be influenced by mischievous and malicious friends, as well as quickly following habits and low morals,” Ulwan said.
As a result, he revealed, evil deeds and perversions became part of the child's habits and habits. Thus, it is difficult to return them to the straight path and save them from error and misery.
“With its educational teachings, Islam has directed parents and educators to pay perfect attention to children. Especially once it's puberty, so they really know who the people are accompanying, and where they're going,” he said.
Islam also provides guidance for choosing good companions for their children, so that they can absorb noble morals, customs and customs. Islam provides guidance to warn them against evil and bad friends so that they do not become entangled in unity and perversion.
The Prophet Muhammad also gave a message about the importance of caring for the environment of friendship. This is as follows in the following historical hadith:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): “Allah's peace and blessings be upon him.”
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said of Abu Hurairah (peace and blessings be upon him): “A person will follow the religion of his friend. Therefore, one of you should pay attention to who his friend is” (Hr. Ahmad, At Tirmidzi, Abu Daud, and Al Baihaqi).
“The parable of the man who associates with the shaleh and the one who associates with the wicked is like the perfumed oil salesman and the ironsmith. You must get it from a perfume dealer whether you buy the fragrance oil or just get the smell of the fragrance. But from the blacksmith it will burn your body or your cloth or you will get an unpleasant smell” (HR. Bukhari).
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